Montpelier, VT

Patricia S. Sykas, a beloved resident of Montpelier, Vermont, passed away on October 20, 2023, at the age of 80. She was born in Warrick, NY on August 28, 1943, to her parents, the late Charles and Rose (Blair) Stoddard.

Pat was a woman of many passions and talents. She and her husband Paul dedicated their life to the restaurant business, being proud owners of the Lobster Pot and Tower Restaurants. The Lobster Pot became a cherished gathering place for the community, where friends and family would come together to enjoy delicious meals and create lasting memories.

Outside of her professional life, Pat enjoyed indulging in her favorite pastimes. She had a deep love for cards, often engaging in lively games with her loved ones. Her nimble fingers found solace in the art of sewing, creating beautiful quilts and treasured keepsakes for family and friends. Pat's generous spirit also extended to hosting gatherings, where she delighted in entertaining those closest to her. The family's lake house on Lake Groton held a special place in her heart, where she admired the beauty of her favorite birch tree and spent cherished moments with her loved ones. It was also the setting for the Sykas Christmas in July gathering and many summertime Greek Picnics.

Pat's educational journey began at Orleans High School, and she later earned her Bachelor's degree in Teaching from Lyndon State College.

Left to cherish her memory are her beloved daughter, Julie DiPilato and husband, Chris of Marston Mills, MA; her grandsons, Jacob of Marstons Mills, MA and Ryan DiPilato of Cotuit, MA; her daughter-in-law, Amy Flannery and Micheal Flannery of Plainfield; her sister, Gloria and John Conley of Barton, VT; her brother, Rick and Dolores Stoddard of Orleans, VT and Donald Stoddard and friend Terese Stone of Glover, VT. Pat will also be fondly remembered by her nieces, nephews, and extended family and a wide circle of friends, whose lives she touched with her kindness and warmth.

Sadly, she was predeceased by her husband, Paul Sykas and son, Steve Sykas.

A memorial service to honor Patricia's life will be held on October 27, 2023, at 11:00 am at the Guare & Sons Funeral Home in Montpelier. There will be a reception to follow. Family and friends are invited to come together and share stories, celebrate her achievements, and find solace in one another's company during this difficult time.

In lieu of flowers, the family kindly requests donations to be made in Pat's name to the Dana Farber Cancer Institute at www.dana-farber.org, as she was passionate about supporting cancer research and finding a cure for this devastating disease.

Pat Sykas will forever be remembered as a loving mother, doting grandmother, and loyal friend. Her determination and strength in everything that she did and overcame served her well. Her warm smile, infectious laughter, and unwavering love will be deeply missed by all who had the privilege of knowing her. May her soul find eternal peace as her memory lives on in our hearts.

Those wishing to express online condolences may do so at www.guareandsons.com.